Photo by Nik on Unsplash Today, I’ll be answering the question of what is the most common behavior for someone who has undergone a lot of abuse. Actually, the most common behavior is hypervigilance. Hypervigilance is an instance where you are…
Photo by JESHOOTS.COM on Unsplash Today, I’ll be answering the question: Do abusers normally call you after no contact? Do all of them call you? Because I’ve seen this question where someone was saying, “Why is it that my abusive ex…
Photo by engin akyurt on Unsplash Today, I’ll be answering this question of how do you end a toxic relationship without the drama? This is a very interesting topic because when you think about ending a relationship with someone who’s controlling…
Photo by Jessica Rockowitz on Unsplash Today, I’ll be answering the question of how toxic people weaponize your kids. By toxic people, I mean that if you are or if you were in an abusive relationship and you have kids with…
Photo by Javier Allegue Barros on Unsplash Today I’ll be answering the question: Is it okay not to want to date anymore after leaving an abusive relationship? This is a very good question. Actually, there are two sides to this. It’s…
Photo by Sydney Sims on Unsplash Someone did ask this question: ‘Why did I let them mentally abuse me for 6 or more years?’ This question often arises once you’ve exited the abusive relationship. It’s not about self-blame but an exploration…
Photo by Sander Sammy on Unsplash Today, I’ll be addressing the question: Is it possible for an abuser to ask for no contact? This is a very interesting question because, typically, one of the first steps after leaving an abusive relationship…
Photo by Michael Fenton on Unsplash Today, I’ll be answering the question of whether you can find someone who can really, really love you to the point that you feel this is it. I’m referring to instances where you may feel…
Photo by Carlos de Miguel on Unsplash When you’ve lived most of your life jumping from one relationship to another or looking for that ‘love’ to really feel loved, you will think that there is someone out there for you that…
Photo by Andreas Fickl on Unsplash Today I’ll be addressing the question: Why is it that some actions or things you did while you were in that relationship don’t make sense at all when you think about them after leaving? Here’s…
Photo by Odile Luna on Unsplash Hey guys, today I’ll be answering why do you want to help out your abusive partner. Helping out here means that you may want to bail them out, let’s say when they are in prison.…
Photo by Ben White on Unsplash Today I’ll be addressing the question: What do you do when your abusive ex desperately wants you back? By desperate, I mean they take extreme measures, such as sending you messages every day, apologizing profusely,…
