Moving on From Toxic Relationships: Will things Ever Be the Same Again?

Moving on From Toxic Relationships: Will things Ever Be the Same Again? moving on from toxic relationships: will things ever be the same again?
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Today, I’ll be addressing the question of why you might feel that things will never be the same again. Perhaps you’ve left a relationship, your abusive ex has moved on, you’ve lost friends, people doubt you, or you’ve even lost your job or you’ve been alienated from your kids. It seems like everything is not going your way, and you start to believe that things will never be as they once were. The truth is, things will indeed never be the same again, but there are two sides to this.

Firstly, it will never be the same again if you continue to dwell on the pain you’re feeling. If you let the negative thoughts and emotions control your mindset, it becomes challenging to envision a brighter future. Moreover, it will never be the same again if you believe you’ll be stuck in this painful position forever, feeling betrayed and in constant agony. You think it will never be the same again because you’re thinking about this and your thinking has already been eroded by the past experiences. It’s like drinking water from a dirty glass, the water will always be dirty. That negative thought loop you’ve lived with for most of your life is like a glass of waters and it entraps you, making it difficult to see beyond your current struggles. Living in an environment where betrayal, manipulation, and verbal abuse are the norm can reinforce the belief that a positive change is impossible.

Make Things To Be Different

However, things can also never be the same again if you actively work on breaking free from that negative thought loop. Breaking free involves challenging the negative beliefs you hold about yourself. Recognize your resilience and that you still have the capacity to makes things better for you in the present moment — the fact that you wake up, read videos, have meals — signifies your inner strength. Leaving an abusive relationship demonstrates you can still make great choices in for your wellbeing, and acknowledging these aspects empowers you to see a glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel.

Processing the pain is crucial in developing a deep understanding of yourself. You’ll realize that others’ actions don’t define who you are as a person. Becoming self-reliant allows you to choose to be in or out of a relationship, pursuing your interests with independence. Breaking free from the loop offers you the choice to take care of yourself, ensuring that things may never be the same again, but you can rise higher and become a better human being.

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So, unless you break free from that negative loop, you might believe that things will never be the same for you on a negative level. However, breaking free opens the door to a transformed and empowered life.

Note from the Author

If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.

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Edwin Bii
Edwin Bii

I'm Edwin Bii, a trained advanced conversational hypnotherapist (ACH) and Mind Shifting Coach from Kenya offering mental health support, and life coaching to help you crush your goalsand overcome your problems. Together, we'll navigate challenges, build self-awareness, and create a happier, healthier you. Let's unlock your potential.

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