Trauma Bondingโ€Šโ€”โ€ŠAttachment to you Betrayer

Trauma Bondingโ€Šโ€”โ€ŠAttachment to you Betrayer trauma bondingโ€Šโ€”โ€Šattachment to you betrayer
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๐—ง๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฎ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ! ๐—”๐˜๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐˜† betrayed you ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ!!

Trauma bonding is that ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป developed between you and a toxic person where the brain holds onto the positive experience of the relationship rather than its negative effect on you. Itโ€™s when we have feelings of affection or miss people who have abused us since weโ€™ve developed a connection to them.

How does it happen? It all starts with love bombing in the initial stage of the relationship where they shower with excessive words of affections, gifts and all those things you desire. This leads you to falling in love with a person who does not exist (or their false self) who you even believe is your soulmate and you feel that youโ€™ve finally arrived.

They then start to display hot and cold behavior. They begin verbally abusing you in a cunning and subtle manner by gaslighting, blame shifting, name calling all in the form of manipulating you to believe their narrative. This distorts your sense of reality and you start compromising everything in the hope of getting things to the way they were early on in the relationship or so that you can maintain the relationship.

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You become addicted to the highs and lows as your body is on a constant stress and craves the dopamine peaks. You will rationalize their behavior, make excuses for them and even blame yourself for what happened. And when you leave, you find yourself ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด and ๐—บ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด them so badly, same feeling as being hooked to a drug. So, this wanting to go back to them and missing them so badly is just an addictive response.

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To address the trauma bond, you have to dissolve those trapped emotions that prevent you from living life more presently. If you are ready to break the bond, let me know in the comments so that I can help you by using Mind Shifting.

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I'm Edwin Bii, a trained advanced conversational hypnotherapist (ACH) and Mind Shifting Coach from Kenya offering mental health support, and life coaching to help you crush your goalsand overcome your problems. Together, we'll navigate challenges, build self-awareness, and create a happier, healthier you. Let's unlock your potential.

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